Long Island Divorce Attorney

Shield Your Children

With their compulsive need to win, narcissists often try to manipulate their children. They will not hesitate to use the children as part of their game, trying to score points and getting them to doubt you.

Kids feel the stress and strain of divorce. They may feel particularly vulnerable during this time, making them susceptible to attempts at alienation. Your goal is to shield your children as much as possible.

Your attorney or a family counselor may offer some tips on the best way to protect your kids from your spouse’s manipulative tactics.

What to Expect from a Narcissist in a Divorce

If you’re dealing with a narcissistic ex, you need to be prepared, as this is likely to be a complicated process. Family Law proceedings do take time, and Divorce can be painful, even without dealing with a narcissist.

A narcissistic ex may instruct their attorney to use up as much of your time as possible, so you don’t feel as though you have any control over the situation. It’s always best to let your attorney address your concerns for you rather than let your emotions lead you to a frustrating conversation with your ex.  We understand that when dealing with a narcissist, it can be extremely hard to communicate reasonably.  We have experience dealing with complex personality types and will speak on your behalf and protect your best interests.

Narcissists tend to demand control over everything and care little about whether the process goes smoothly, even if that means they make it worse even on themselves.

The important thing is that you don’t give in to your ex’s demands just because you want the process to move faster. The decisions that the courts make about your divorce will have a huge impact on your life. They may even determine whether you are given custody over your children.

If you’re working with the right divorce attorney, you’ll have someone on your side who’s devoted to serving your best interests.  We understand that divorcing a narcissist is going to be complex, and will do everything we can to help you achieve a favorable outcome.  We don’t want you to feel overwhelmed, so we will keep you informed along the way to avoid confusion.

Actual Words Clients Have Used to Describe Us & Their Experience:

“In the midst of a harrowing divorce with an abusive, drug-addicted spouse, the Hedayati Law Group proved to be a beacon of hope and support.”, “With their invaluable assistance, I was able to secure a favorable outcome for my child and myself. I highly recommend the Hedayati Law Group to anyone facing similar challenges, knowing firsthand the profound impact their dedication and professionalism can have during such trying times”, “Their attention to detail and commitment to my case brought peace of mind during a difficult time. Highly recommend for anyone needing guidance in family law.”, “It is so helpful to know that your attorney and his/her entire staff has your back and will be there as a steady guiding hand throughout the ups and downs of litigation. The firm also has a fine reputation with the court and with many of the matrimonial judges. They were all there for me every step of the way, and I would highly recommend the firm to friends and colleagues.” , “Al’s approach brings a much-needed sense of humanity and understanding. His ability to listen attentively and empathize with each client’s unique situation makes a significant difference and is something that is very hard to find! I would recommend Al to all my loved ones.”, “Al and his staff are very professional and care about their client’s best interest. If anyone is looking for a great divorce attorney, look no further and call the Hedayati Law Group!”, “Going through a divorce is extremely difficult however from the moment you call this office you know you’re going to be in great hands. This group is exceptional and catch every detail.”, “The Best of the Best my experience with Hedayati Law Group was beyond satisfaction”, “In my experience, if you retain Hedayati Law Group and carefully execute on their guidance and direction, you will achieve your goals.”, “In short, having gone the distance with them, I recommend Hedayati Law Group without reservation.”, “What can I say about a Law firm who makes you feel like family as soon as you walk through the Door.”, “I have nothing but amazing things to say about Hedayati Law group. Mr. Hedayati has made a very difficult process much easier. He is top notch and cares about his clients. From the beginning I knew I was in good hands”, “Al Hedayati successfully guided me through a long divorce and I recommend him unconditionally.”,  “unfailingly kind, sensitive, and supportive, a true mensch with warmth and humor.”, “In my experience, the best divorce lawyer in NYC and Long Island. Strongly recommend.”

If these things are what you are looking for in a law firm then contact us to see if we are right for your situation and how we can help you.

What To Do Now

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